Time to be in Love – Coach Seduction – Coaching Dating – Singles and Couples
Is it time for you to be in love or do you have the excuse of not having time? I speak to several singles every week, and some have been reading my newsletter for 6 months, 1 year, 2 years, 3 years, and are still single. For many, they can’t find love at the moment because they do not take little or no time for their personal lives. It is also important to develop skills to improve their game… Also, some singles even socially isolate themselves… The Internet dating sites are certainly ways to meet, but there are also other non-virtual methods, such as recreational and social meeting places with other singles like yourself. The greater Montreal and even the Quebec region have many activities available to you.
The fact that many singles are in seclusion is sometimes due to injuries from past relationships, sometimes because of rejection they suffered. When I offer them the help with an essay (in which 20% to 90% of a blockage or fear will be reduced), they often give me excuses because they do not have time. But taking the time to heal the past and improve their skills for better meetings is a choice that yields results. One thing is certain, improvement generally does not happen magically. This is one of the greatest scientists in the world, Einstein, who said: “The madness is to always do the same thing and expect different results.” What excuses do singles have not to improve their social and love life? This effectively takes time, self-investment, and effort to learn and change. If your love life is at a standstill and it’s been that way for a while, chances are great that it will remain that way if you do nothing different.
Create opportunities for meetings and being in love
Recently, during a coaching session on love, I was talking to a client, and she said she had noticed someone new at her work. “He’s very much to my liking, but he tells me I haven’t had the opportunity to talk to him.” I said, “Have you created an opportunity to talk to him? For you, not having had the occasion is an excuse.” If you want something to happen in your love life, you must create opportunities and take responsibility for the results you get, or rather, you do not get.
Too old, too old to be in love
Believe it or not, I know singles in their thirties who tell me, “I’m too old to fall in love; I’m not in my twenties anymore!” I tell them that if that’s what you think, it may not happen to you… Hence the importance of changing what people think because it influences who we are, what we become, and this limits our experience of being in love again. I often hear this limiting belief from singles (especially women): “I’m too old to attract someone.” Maybe there is less choice, but believing is fundamental for it to happen again. Because if you do not believe in being able to attract someone, you may not perceive the opportunities that arise in your life and open up to other singles who are not confined to believing they can be in love again.
Marie France Archibald, social life coach, and love
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